Do you know how to handle family member's negative comments or opinions?????
Its one thing to ignore people we don't really know but what happens when its a family member??? I've learned that even when you do put your foot down they can still say hurtful things. Sometimes they don't even realize that they are saying things that hurt your feelings. If you haven't told them how you feel yet DO IT NOW!!!!! Let them know they are hurting your feelings. If they continue then continue to tell them. The more you let them know the sooner they will stop. Eventually they will get it and stop saying negative things to you.
Most importantly don't let what others think change your opinions of yourself or goals you have. You are beautiful and don't let anyone make you believe otherwise. If your goal is to lose weight don't let anyone convince you not to. If your want to change your hair DO IT, its your hair. You have to let that person know that you are going to make decisions for yourself.
When you show people how much you love yourself and you wont change for them, they will learn to love your for you. Stand up for yourself you deserve the best and you are beautiful.
Peace & Love