Full Figured, Fabulous & Dating Part 2: What to Wear

Nothing is more annoying than tearing my closet apart looking for the perfect outfit. Whether it's going to work or hanging out with friends, I end up with a major clean up on isle 6 in my room. When it comes to dating you have to be very particular and careful about what you wear.

The first thing to consider when looking for your prefect outfit is where are you going. Dressing for the occasion is a must. How embarrassing is it to be dressed down or to formal for a date that is completely the opposite. I remember watching a reality show and the guy asked the girl to hang out. She misinterpreted it as it being a date and showed up dressed to the nines. He on the other hand had on jeans and a flannel shirt....SMH. So before you pull out your ball gown understand what type of date are you going on.

The next thing is dress comfortably. Regardless of where your date is make sure you are comfortable. If you have to put on 4 spanx, the outfit is not for you. You should not get light headed and be about to pass out because you have been holding your breathe since 8 o'clock. On the chance you do want to add things like breast/butt enhancers or spanx, make sure they are secured and appropriately covered. For the women with large breast keep an eye on button up tops. Make sure they are not struggling to stay closed. For women with larger butts should make sure your pants are not showing any crack. Also the length of your dress should not end at your private area.

Speaking about private areas the most important thing is dressing appropriate in general. It is ok to have a top that shows a bit of cleavage but if your nipple is about to pop out DO NOT wear that top. You should also make sure your butt or underwear is not showing when wearing a dress, skirt, or shorts. You want to look your best, but most importantly you want to be respected and treated like the queen you are. Now I know that men will treat women however they feel but It is known that how you dress can lead to being treated a way you will not like. Your confidence should be the sexiest thing you wear so leave the club attire for the club.

It is important to dress the way you feel most comfortable but remember just because it was made in your size does not mean it looks good on you. Choose your outfit wisely because first impressions are everything. Ask yourself what statement are your trying to make???


***Stay tuned for Full Figured, Fabulous & Dating Part 3: Great Places for Dates next Friday***